Hanlon’s Razor: Never Attribute to Malice That Which is Adequately Explained by Stupidity
/Hanlon’s Razor reminds us that 99% of the transgressions that we perceive are created in our minds, not in reality. Our assumptions create our reality. And when we view everything through the lens of malice or ill intent, we create enemies in our mind that don’t actually exist.
If you assume every minor transgression is a personal attack against you, it’s going to be an agonizing life. Most people don't know who you are, nor do they care. They're out there living their own life oblivious to your presence. In a world with billions of people, most people don’t know you and don’t have it out for you. If, however, you view yourself as the center of the universe, you assume everyone is thinking about you. Your ego interprets any negative occurrence as a direct attack, rather than an innocuous, meaningless encounter.
I’m not a big fan of life hacks, but Hanlon’s Razor is one that makes life a little easier to live. The person that cut you off on the way to work this morning? I can assure you they didn’t wake up this morning with deliberate intent to do you harm. Instead, as Hanlon’s Razor suggests, they may just be a stupid, careless driver. That doesn’t excuse bad driving, but it does excuse the idea that they had it out for you. They may be in a rush and that has nothing to do with you. Road rage exists because fragile egos can’t embrace the concept of Hanlon’s Razor. When we over personalize other’s actions, we've now let the other person control how we respond and how we feel. What a recipe for misery.
There are bad drivers, but not bad drivers who have it out for you. That difference is the essence of Hanlon’s razor.
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