7 Ideas You Should Know From: Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy Baumeister
The 7 Big Ideas:
Problems of distraction
Decision Fatigue
Need to eliminate options
Use habits to build automatic behavior
Bright lines – create black and white rules to make choices easy
Parkinson’s Law – give yourself ultra short timelines to accomplish things
Pre-commit as an automatic rule
My Highlights From the Book:
Problems of distraction
The persistence of distracting thoughts is an indication that the unconscious mind is asking the conscious mind to make a plan.
Once formed, the unconscious can stop.
Decision Fatigue
Decision fatigue helps explain why sensible people do really crazy and dumb things.
Decision making depletes willpower, once depleted, you’re less able to make decisions.
Need to eliminate options
On any decision, choosing one means killing off the other and people have a hard time giving up options, even when those options aren’t any good. Afraid of cutting off something good
Closing a door on an option is experienced as a loss and people are willing to pay a price to avoid the emotion of a loss…But we often don’t see the long-term price we are paying to keep all options open.
Use habits to build automatic behavior
Orderly habits can improve self-control in the long run by triggering automatic mental processes that don’t require much energy.
Automatic behaviors tend to be limited to habits, controlled behaviors tend to be unusual or one-time events.
Bright lines – create black and white rules to make choices easy
Bright lines: clear, simple, unambiguous rules. Cant help but notice when you cross them. Zero tolerance
Parkinson’s Law – give yourself ultra short timelines to accomplish things
Set a time limit for tedious tasks – you will always fill up the available time- so make it short
Pre-commit as an automatic rule
Pre-commitment is the ultimate offensive weapon. Monitoring is crucial for any plan.