What Evidence Would Change Your Mind?
/As soon as you begin any debate, your immediate priority is to figure out if the other side is willing to change their mind.
Most people don’t argue to learn. They don’t argue to further their understanding. They argue to confirm their beliefs and prove their superiority. These discussions never go anywhere, never change any minds, and never uncover new evidence. In short, they’re a complete waste of time. Avoid these arguments.
The good news is that there’s a simple test to figure out if the other person is open to changing their mind.
Adam Grant, author of Think Again, explains:
In a heated argument, you can always stop and ask, “What evidence would change your mind?” If the answer is “nothing,” then there’s no point in continuing the debate. You can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make it think.
Any variation of “What evidence would change your mind” will work. The exact message isn’t as important as the meaning.
Alan Jacobs, author of How to Think: A Survival Guide for a World at Odds, recommends the following:
…this is true of many communities of conspiracy theorists, those who believe that the Holocaust didn’t happen, or that Lyndon Johnson was behind the Kennedy assassination. “The question is, ‘Could you show to those people a set of facts that would lead them to abandon what we consider to be their outlandish views?’…the answer to that question is no, because all people who have a story to which they are committed are able to take any set of counter-evidence and turn it back, within the perspective of the story they believe in.”
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